What is important is to try to create opportunities! This
can be easily done by focusing on a couple of things that will get you noticed.
These include:
FACE
One does not need to be handsome or have a film star type
of face. Any face well cared for will do the trick. Maintain your facial hair
smartly. Don’t keep unkempt hair or beard. Make sure you have a nice haircut
and have a clean shaven chin or well kept beard. Some men assume lotions and/or
vaselines are for women, but it is important to use it sparingly to maintain a
glow to your skin. Older men are advised to use anti-aging cream to do away
with the ugly wrinkles.
ODOUR
Nail your appearance with a
cool fragrance. Women tend to follow a nice smell wafting in their noses.
Unfortunately, not many men consider applying deodorants and wearing a GOOD
perfume as part of their appearance. Cheap perfumes put off women!
Studies have proved that unlike men, women rate a
male’s scent as the number one factor when finding a potential partner. So
take the time to discover good colognes for men that the ladies love.
Stylish Perfume
DEMEANOR
Like already mentioned, first impressions are very
important. How do you handle yourself for the first time? Please show how well
you were groomed by setting the right tone from the word go. Offer a firm
handshake, make eye contact, smile and give your full attention. Those few
seconds of acknowledging her presence can mean the difference between
acceptance and rejection. If you don’t greet a woman properly for the
first time, you’ve already dug yourself a hole. And don’t forget to have clean
hands at all times. Rough dirty hands are a turn off!
THE SMILE
The best captivating asset is a smile. Combine that smile
with proper eye contact and a confident posture – and you’re already on a roll
when it comes to impressing her. However, make sure your teeth are clean. If
they are noticeably dirty or discoloured, my brother brother, you are done
in. Many things stain your teeth including,
but not limited to smoking and coffee drinking. Ensure you brush your teeth
twice a day and every so often a visit to the dentist. If older, try using
whitener to cover the natural yellow colour that comes with age as the enamel
wears off.
Language
Avoid the street language if you are to hook up with a
decent lady. As earlier mentioned, good grooming involves good knowledge and
discussing enriching subjects. Set yourself apart from guys who always talk as
if they’re at a football game. Avoid swearing in front of a woman you just met.
“F” words are a no go area. Learn to listen without interrupting in order to
engage your partner more interactively. Women like men who listen. Include some
sense of humour in your discussion. When you make a woman laugh a lot, she will
crave to be by your side all the time. Note that the humour should not be the
dirty language used by most comedians!
Body language goes beyond the nicest clothes or the
widest smile you can give. Don’t fold your arms as it is a sign of boredom or
nervousness and does not reflect open body language.
Avoid any gestures that can catch a pretty lady off guard
(since she’s still getting to know you). Watch out for the subtlest finger tap
or tiling of the neck. Remind yourself every now and then to keep your arms
unfolded. It’s about smooth and “open” body language all
the time. Look the lady straight in her eyes as you speak and do not over
gesture as you talk.
The outline of your body plus your clothing are also
quite important as you talk to a woman you are attracted to. Women are
particularly drawn to a very masculine silhouette – with a built-up chest, a
lean torso, and strong shoulders. This entails wearing the right cut of a suit jacket. Avoid extreme tapers or fits when it comes to
trousers. Say NO to skinny jeans –
they don’t display an attractive silhouette. Swap them for slim-fit or
straight-leg types.
STYLE
Well-fitted suit jackets/blazers and nice trousers might initially
impress but that is not all one has to work with. Any man can find these. It is
important to stand out, so attention must be paid to smaller details like
hairstyle, jewellery, perfect sunglasses for your face shape and proper shoes.
So dressing well sends positive messages best describing your status, your
lifestyle and personality.
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